First Time at Camp?
There's something magical about watching your kid head off to camp for the first time. And something terrifying. Let's make sure the magic wins.
Here's the truth: your child's first camp experience will shape how they feel about camp for years to come. A great first experience creates a kid who can't wait to go back. A rough one might turn them off entirely.
The good news? You have more control over this than you might think. It's not about finding the "perfect" camp—it's about preparing your child (and yourself) so they can thrive wherever they go.
Is Your Child Actually Ready?
Age matters less than you'd think. Some 7-year-olds are totally ready for a week away. Some 10-year-olds aren't. Here's what actually indicates readiness:
Good signs:
- ✓ They've done successful sleepovers
- ✓ They can manage basic hygiene alone
- ✓ They show genuine interest (not just because you suggested it)
- ✓ They can communicate needs to adults
- ✓ They've handled being away from you before
Maybe wait if:
- • Sleepovers always end in pickup calls
- • They're anxious about being separated
- • They're going only because you want them to
- • Major life changes just happened (divorce, move, new sibling)
Pro tip: If you're unsure, start with a 3-night camp instead of a full week. Success builds confidence for longer experiences later.
What to Say (And What Not To)
How you talk about camp shapes their expectations. Here's a script that works:
Say this:
"Camp is going to be really fun. You'll try new things, meet new friends, and probably do stuff you've never done before. Some parts might feel hard at first—like missing home or not knowing anyone yet—but that's totally normal. Most kids feel that way, and then by day two, they're having a blast."
Avoid this:
"It's going to be the best week of your life!" (Sets impossible expectations)
"If you really hate it, I can come get you." (Gives them an easy out to avoid discomfort)
"You'll be fine, don't worry!" (Dismisses real feelings)
The Week Before: Building Confidence
Practice packing together. Let them help choose what goes in the bag—it gives them ownership.
Look at the camp website or photos together. Point out fun stuff: 'Look, they have a climbing wall!'
Talk through a typical camp day. Knowing the routine reduces anxiety about the unknown.
Write letters they can open at camp. One for arrival, one for mid-week when homesickness peaks.
Do something calm and connected—not a big goodbye party. A movie night, their favorite dinner.
Drop-Off Day: The Hardest Part (For You)
Here's a secret: drop-off is usually harder on parents than kids. Your child takes emotional cues from you. If you're a mess, they'll feel like something's wrong.
Keep goodbyes short and confident. A hug, an "I love you, have fun!"—and go. Lingering makes it harder.
Don't sneak away. That creates trust issues. Say goodbye clearly, then leave.
Trust the counselors. They do this every week. They know how to help first-timers settle in.
Save your tears for the car. It's okay to cry—just not in front of them.
Comfort Items: What Actually Helps
A small comfort item from home can make a big difference—but choose wisely:
Great choices:
- • Family photo for their bunk
- • Small stuffed animal (no shame, even for older kids)
- • Pillowcase from home
- • Your pre-written letters
Skip these:
- • Electronics (most camps don't allow them anyway)
- • Expensive items that could get lost
- • Anything that makes them stand out awkwardly
A Note for You, the Parent
The first time your kid goes to camp, you might feel a weird mix of excitement, guilt, worry, and relief. That's all normal.
Resist the urge to call the camp constantly checking in. Your child is learning independence—and so are you. That's the whole point.
Most of the time, kids who are nervous at drop-off are having the time of their lives by dinner. Trust the process.
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